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MONEY SHADOW QUIZ

How do you relate to your money?

See where you're sabotaging your money friendship.

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Select the response to each question that most resonates with what is true for you right now.

Question 2 of 10

 

 

1. When it comes to your money, which statement resonates with you the most?

 

A

A/ I have unhealthy boundaries around budgeting and buying, which leads to impulsivity and imbalance.

B

B/ I struggle with negative money talk, which hinders my relationship with affluence and prosperity.

C

C/ I find it difficult to appreciate the money in my life; compared to others I feel inadequate.

D

D/ I rarely dedicate time for planning around my money, leading to confusion.

E

E/ I often feel overwhelmed by financial responsibilities and am unclear about next steps to support my intentions.

Question 3 of 10

 

 

2. How do you typically respond to unexpected expenses?

 

A

A/ I don’t tend to ask for help, feeling embarrassed by my financial challenges.

B

B/ I often spiral into self-doubt, feeling inadequate and unsure of who to ask for help.

C

C/ I rarely see the gift the money challenge may offer, preferring to deny its impact on my life.

D

D/ I can’t muster up the energy to review the situation or create a well-considered strategy.

E

E/ I often avoid the issue entirely, hoping it will resolve itself without too much extra effort.

Question 4 of 10

 

 

3. Complete this sentence: Thinking about planning my financial future…

 

A

A/ I see how much I resist working with my money in real, practical ways everyday.

B

B/ I think about all the things I "should" do which leads to procrastination.

C

C/ I completely overlook the progress I've made, focusing instead on what I lack.

D

D/ Makes me see how inconsistent I am in putting any time or attention to my money.

E

E/ Makes me anxious to take on more responsibility for my money goals or set new ones.

Question 5 of 10

 

 

4. How do you typically approach opportunities for financial growth?

 

A

A/ Money opportunities hardly register for me as I’m mostly focused on making ends meet.

B

B/ I second-guess my instincts, feeling insecure about my financial choices.

C

C/ I would likely dismiss any potential opportunity as not really "meant for me".

D

D/ I might get excited initially, but then drop the ball when it comes to following through.

E

E/ The idea of even more financial responsibility paralyzes me.

Question 6 of 10

 

 

5. How do you view your financial achievements?

 

A

A/ Most of my financial success is due to fulfilling external expectations or obligations.

B

B/ I often downplay the significance of my financial gains, or attribute them to external factors.

C

C/ I find it hard to appreciate what I have and sometimes feel guilty for having more than others.

D

D/ I never know what direction to go in next after achieving a money goal of any kind.

E

E/ Achieving money milestones often leaves me feeling empty and unfulfilled.

Question 7 of 10

 

 

6. How do you approach money conversations?

 

A

A/ I feel overwhelmed by money discussions, especially if they are heated.

B

B/ I deflect discussions about money, it makes me uncomfortable to share.

C

C/ Being asked about money makes me feel apologetic and then get defensive.

D

D/ I struggle to empathize with others during money discussions, and can get dismissive.

E

E/ I’m not assertive with my financial needs, preferring to compromise to avoid conflict.

Question 8 of 10

 

 

7. How do you manage your monthly bills?

 

A

A/ I feel trapped by my monthly financial obligations, unable to find a balance between meeting my needs and enjoying life.

B

B/ I’m often resentful of my monthly financial commitments and speak ill of those I owe money.

C

C/ It’s difficult for me to feel gratitude for the comforts my money provides even when bills are paid.

D

D/ I leave bills to the last minute, avoiding thinking about or dealing with most payments.

E

E/ I struggle to prioritize bills and payments, overwhelmed by monthly financial responsibilities.

Question 9 of 10

 

 

8. Complete this phrase: Learning more about money…

 

A

A/ Doesn’t strike me as pleasurable in any way.

B

B/ Is only for rich people with lots of money to manage.

C

C/ Only interests me if I can see more ways to be generous toward others with my money.

D

D/ Is a waste of my precious time that I’d rather spend on something else more fun.

E

E/ Feels exhausting when I already take on too much.

TALLY YOUR RESPONSES

 

> Tally your A's, B's, C's, D's, E's on your Results page.


> Where are you sabotaging your money friendship?

 

A/ Loving Touch (Affection)

B/ Words of Praise (Approval)

C/ Receiving Gifts (Appreciation)

D/ Quality Time-in (Attention)

E/ Acts of Service (Care)

 

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